Jiachyi Sheridin Monday, August 11, 2014
BACK FROM THE EUROPE!!!!!
Well hellooooo! I'm not sure if anyone is aware of this blog, if it still exists..... Anyway, I'm really glad that I've reached home safely and that I've kinda enjoyed Europe. I'm thankful for this opportunity & I hope in near future I'm able to visit Europe againnnnn. I'll be back for the next post for more photos and thoughts on this trip.
Today's post is quite personal, at least for me. And why should I pen down my thoughts since it's personal? Maybe all I need is an answer to an impossible question. Here it goes; what did we do to deserve break up? That's right. When I'm back from UK, I've heard a couple of news of break ups (and the couples were together for at least 2 years plus) What went wrong? Naturally, being a sensitive person (as usual), I'll be a lil paranoid. And who will be affected by me being paranoid? Antony. But we are two very (extremely) different people. To him, every couple is different. Whether they break up or not, it does not affect him. Maybe if you have his character traits, you must be thinking that I'm crazy for over thinking. But have you ever stop and understand why did they break up? So you'll learn from it so it'll not happen on you..... Have you experienced break up? Why did you and him/her broke up? Was it painful? Is it painful? Are you willing to experience the pain again?
I am no love guru. But the truth is every couple meets their ups and downs. When you both meet downs, solve it. Don't leave it hanging. Don't try to spike each other. Don't bring up the past. However, it's easier to be said than done. Then here comes compromising. Lower your pride and compromise. It's never easy. Never. But I've always believe after every quarrel, the level of understanding of each other increases, no? At least for me.
Ups? You celebrate. Two hands create friction but they clap too! Happy moments are meant to be celebrated. It doesn't hurt to praise your boyfriend / girlfriend. It doesn't hurt to give them a nice warm tight hugs. It doesn't hurt to lower your pride and make funny faces to see their smiles. In fact, I feel happier than them when they are happy! (This relates to my family and friends too)
I'm just a lil upset about couples breaking up when they have been together for a few years. You kinda know most of his/her habits. You kinda know his/her new habits. You kinda ready to spend the rest of your life with him/her. You are already so comfortable with him/her that you can just forget about being glam. You've accepted his/her perfect imperfections and lovin' it. You.....
Am I wrong? Just my 2 cents worth of thoughts at 2.59am. I'm not sure if I could link them up when I wake up later. I wish I could. I wish I could help. I wish..... Goodnight earthlings.
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